You did WHAT?!?!

So when I arrive home last night Josh had started the laundry like a good husband. He remembered my gripe about how I think every load of laundry since we returned from Vegas has been done by ME!!! There was a load finishing as I got home so I came in and helped him fold it. He says to me I have something to tell you.....

Josh proceeds to tell me that he interviewed for a job as a photo lab/connect center manager at the Wal-Mart in Beaver Dam. Which for those of you who are experts in Wisconsin geography will note is NO WHERE NEAR Spring Green!!! MY first thought is "Isn't marriage a partnership where the husband and wife TOGETHER make difficult decisions about life and where we will move and changing jobs and everything. Second thought, Beaver Dam is an awful long way to drive to Madison too. I say.... I think that we should live in Sun Prairie then. That would be about halfway. He agrees.

I then proceed to through a barrage of questions out to him. Lecture him about not consulting me and get my panties in a bunch. To which the man of my dreams says. "Jess go have a drink or something, I don't care as long as it calms you DOWN!!!

The things that bothers me the most are a) he didn't talk to me about it, b) we have to decide almost immediately upon receiving the offer, c) the job starts after the first of the year and d) not only will we have the stress of the holidays we will have to pack move and clean!!!!!

I'll keep you posted.

If You Can't Return My Calls Don't Read My Blog!

I am frustrated! I have a friend that I have been trying to call since we returned from the honeymooning. I talked to her once, which was about a week after we got back. I have been trying to call her since then. It has been 2.5 weeks. I call several times a week trying to get ahold of her but to no avail. I leave message after message for her. I even popped off an e-mail...nothing!!!

Let me write this to try and make myself understand.....
We have been friends for YEARS!! I have even called her my BEST friend. We have helped each other through many of the hard times in life. In fact, we even both got married this year. How exciting is that? Right?

I am just confused! I know you are all thinking Jess it has only been 2.5 weeks it isn't like it has been years?!?! Well, it is just hard to go from talking several times a week like we have for the past year or so to nothing. I just hope everything is ok. Upon the confusion is the frustration of this: I know she is reading my blog. There is a program within the blog formatting which tells me where people are visiting me from. It tells me if you have been referred from another site or blog, or if you just typed in the address. One other thing is that it tells me the name of the internet service provider. So I figure it out. Plus, I know who most of my friends and families use as there internet service provider.

So I have made this an official rule of this website:
If you cannot return my phone calls do not read my blog!!